Should You Be Sweet To Your Girl When First Dating?

***SUCCESS STORY***

i love your news letter and i have been reading it
for almost a year. i have been with the same girl
for nine months because of you dave! i used to the
same way about chics, buying them dinners, etc.
but once i started applying your techniques i met
the love of my life. i drive a piece of crap and i
am a broke college student. i played like i didnt
care when my girl and i first met before i know it
she's giving me lots of great sex, money, dvd
player, clothes,vetc. i was cocky and funny but
also threw in a little sweetness to catch her off
gaurd. Ladies get bored with the same old
dates,etc. I did outrAGEOUS THINGS IN AND OUT OF
THE BEDROOM AND NOW WE ARE PROBABLY GOING TO GET
MARRIED LATER ON WHEN I GET OUT OF COLLEGE!

THANKS DAVE! -C FROM TX

>>>MY COMMENTS:

What's this you say?

You have a great girl buying YOU things...
including clothes, and even DVD players?

Very powerful stuff.

You know, in your letter you mentioned throwing
in a "little sweetness" to "catch her off guard."

I would like to share a little profound
revelation:

It's OK to be sweet.

Yes, I know, sounds a little weird coming from
me.

But, it is OK to be sweet to women.

The problem is that most guys do it TOO MUCH,
and TOO SOON. And they come across as needy Wuss
Boys who are trying to use "niceness" to
manipulate.

When you meet a girl you really like and decide
that you want to take things to a "relationship"
level, it's actually great to be sweet.

Just don't do it before date #10! lol...

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