Approach Any Girl

Looking up at someone for power and dominance?

2010-05-21T15:54:00.000-07:00

I remember one time David D talked about a mentor of his who use to look up at you, lean his head back and sort of stare you down. Seems like it's a body language power play. Here's an example fresh off the Internet press. Hillary Clinton is doing it in this picture. This must be a universal body language principle that exudes power and dominance. I also have personal experience with a long time friend who does this, and he has literally been with hundreds of women. So this must be a very concrete principle that works every time.

A Twitter Style Website for the Pick Up Community

2009-02-09T03:46:00.000-08:00

Twitter is a very cool new idea but a lot of times you have to wade through a bunch of random thoughts before you find something you want to read. So, we came up with Pick Up Tweet especially for people that want to focus on what they are doing in the area of getting those girls they want. A place for field reports, questions, random thoughts about the game and whatever else that comes to your mind.

www.pickuptweet.com

A Fun Way to Overcome Your Fear of Looking Bad

2009-02-03T06:27:00.000-08:00

This is some funny shit right here. This guy dresses up as a little girl to overcome worrying about what other people think of him. If you can do this you will never worry about what anyone thinks of you again.

How Do I Get Over Approach Anxiety?

2009-02-03T06:22:00.000-08:00

This guy gives some great tips for overcoming that initial nervousness you get when talking to a girl for the first time. Overcome fear of rejection and learn how to talk to absolutely any girl you find attractive.

Tapping Yourself to Get Girls??

2009-02-03T06:13:00.000-08:00

This is a great technique for getting rid of approach anxiety. Can you imagine the success you would have if you had no fear of approaching women? Yes, you would be a master, you would have the choice you deserve. Give this a try and see what happens. What have you got to loose?? Nothing....

Observations of a Natural

2009-01-27T01:50:00.000-08:00

This is another trait I just thought of that my friend does who is great with women. He gets off on trying to get more out of people wherever he goes. For instance, they had a special promotion going at the bank for people with business accounts, they got a free pair of headphones for signing up for some new account. Well my friend does not have nor want a business account but he wanted those headphones. So he basically badgered the guy into giving them to him, and of course the guy gave it to him with a smile because my friend operates by making you piss your pants with laughter. He laughs the pants off girls and/or headphones from a bank manager. LOL love it!!

Warming Up Before Going Out and Picking Up Girls

2009-01-17T06:08:00.000-08:00

Like stretching before you exercise it's a good idea to do some warm up approaches with any girl you see before you really start to hit up the girls you really want. This is a video of a guy doing warm up approaches on hidden camera. All the girls seem to be really receptive and you can see that it's a great confidence booster.

Dating Tips from Zan Perrion a Natural Pick Up Artist

2009-01-06T02:00:00.000-08:00

Here's a free hour and 20 minute interview with Zan Perrion, a natural pick up artist who travels around helping guys from all around the world get better with women.

Part 1
Part 2

Zan Perrion is a Vancouver based writer, motivational speaker, and life coach. One of the founding members of today's "burgeoning community of international pickup artists"[1], he has from the beginning advocated a more natural and enlightened form of interaction between men and women.

Through his company, Enlightened Seduction, he gives seminars and workshops, and publishes various types of literature and multimedia on relationships, seduction, and dating. more from Wikipedia

Should You Be Sweet To Your Girl When First Dating?

2009-01-04T14:18:00.000-08:00

***SUCCESS STORY***

i love your news letter and i have been reading it
for almost a year. i have been with the same girl
for nine months because of you dave! i used to the
same way about chics, buying them dinners, etc.
but once i started applying your techniques i met
the love of my life. i drive a piece of crap and i
am a broke college student. i played like i didnt
care when my girl and i first met before i know it
she's giving me lots of great sex, money, dvd
player, clothes,vetc. i was cocky and funny but
also threw in a little sweetness to catch her off
gaurd. Ladies get bored with the same old
dates,etc. I did outrAGEOUS THINGS IN AND OUT OF
THE BEDROOM AND NOW WE ARE PROBABLY GOING TO GET
MARRIED LATER ON WHEN I GET OUT OF COLLEGE!

THANKS DAVE! -C FROM TX

>>>MY COMMENTS:

What's this you say?

You have a great girl buying YOU things...
including clothes, and even DVD players?

Very powerful stuff.

You know, in your letter you mentioned throwing
in a "little sweetness" to "catch her off guard."

I would like to share a little profound
revelation:

It's OK to be sweet.

Yes, I know, sounds a little weird coming from
me.

But, it is OK to be sweet to women.

The problem is that most guys do it TOO MUCH,
and TOO SOON. And they come across as needy Wuss
Boys who are trying to use "niceness" to
manipulate.

When you meet a girl you really like and decide
that you want to take things to a "relationship"
level, it's actually great to be sweet.

Just don't do it before date #10! lol...

More tips

Keys to the VIP - Example of Natural Game

2009-01-03T02:05:00.000-08:00

I love this show, but I never seem to be able to catch it when it's on so I have to go to Youtube to get the latest episodes. This is a competition between two guys who think they are good with girls to see who can rack up the most points by making the most connections and get numbers. The episode you are about to watch is one of my favorites because it illustrates the pontential of a guy who can probably get almost any girl he wants and not work that hard at it. The panel of experts on this show are totally blown away by this guy and in my opinion don't know what went on, some of them thought it was just lucky, I beg to differ. This is what happens when you are so comfortable around any woman that you could care less what the outcome is.

I have a friend who was the youngest of 8 and the other 7 siblings were all girls. This guy will do or say anything around any woman, and they all love him. He will say the dirtiest shit, stuff you would cringe at and he still gets amazing girls. They are very comfortable around him because he is. I really think it's because he grew up with soooo many girls in one house. It just makes me wonder if it would be worth it to get a job where there are nothing but women around you, just immerse yourself in the middle of the pack and become completely comfortable around any woman.

Have a look and let me know what you think.

New Years Eve Tips You Can Use Anytime

2009-01-01T06:19:00.000-08:00

Here's a great brand new interview with Brent Smith and Dave M. These guys talk about what to say to start a conversation, how to kiss a girl in 30 seconds and how to have the time of your life this new year's eve. Of course all these tips and tricks will work whenever you go out, not just on new year's.

Have a listen

Mystery and Matador from VH1's The Pick Up Artist Schoolin' Us

2008-12-30T04:25:00.000-08:00

Mystery and Matador talk about some basic instinctual principles of attraction.

Love Hurts? Yes it does, especially when you are a wussy.

2008-12-29T06:36:00.001-08:00

Don't let this happen to you.

The Limbo Technique - Dance Floor Game

2008-12-28T04:14:00.000-08:00

THis is a very cool way to have fun while picking up the ladies. They call this "Dance Floor Game" and it's a great way to meet and have fun with beautiful girls without having to have a big ol conversation at first. This creates an instant connection and makes it real easy to transition into great conversations and taking things farther quicker.

And always remember, www.DontBeAWuss.com

Q & A - Why does she make excuses?

2008-12-27T19:11:00.000-08:00

***QUESTION***

First of all, lets get things straight. I don't
like you. In fact, I hate you. Your success with
women disgusts me, and the way you have it down to
a science so well that you even make ME laugh
sometimes with your smartassed comments to the
lamers who write you vexes me. But it intrigues me
as well. Your stuff works. So I use it. Doesn't
mean I like you. Just means I like your "tools."

Anyway, the problem I'm having lately is I meet
and flirt with a lot of women using c&f, but when
it comes time for things to get a little physical,
they tell me they're waiting for marriage to do
all that! WtF?! Is there a way around this kind of
a "defense" that women use on me oh so often?
(Besides dumping their celibate asses.)

Name: D Location: Bufffalo, New York.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

You know, this is just a guess, but maybe your
challenges with women stem from the dark cloud
around your SOUL!

...ah-hem.

Dude, I can tell that you're attempting to be
funny here, but it also sounds to me like you've
got some anger issues that might need professional
attention.

OK, the way to "get around" the "I'm waiting
for marriage" defense is to stop acting like a
bitter WUSSY.

If women consistently tell you, "I'm waiting
for marriage before I get physical," it can only
mean one of two things:

1) You're shopping for women at the convent.

2) You're CAUSING the resistance you're getting.

Most guys don't realize this, but THEY are the
ones who cause women to resist and make excuses.

Really.

And by the way, don't EVER again say that you
don't like me, but you like my TOOL. That's not
cool.

Great Hidden Camera Pick Up Artist Type Stuff

2008-12-27T06:27:00.000-08:00

This looks like some fresh stuff, unless it somehow passed me by. This video gives you a play by play of everything he is doing. It's kind of like back engineering a natural so you know exactly what he is doing. This is for all of us thinking people that need to know how things work. Even though I would say most naturals are the types of guys who don't think too much.

Q & A - What is the definition of wussy?

2008-12-26T05:36:00.000-08:00

QUESTION: I have been talking to this girl for about a monthnow and I find myself falling in love with hereverytime we see each other (every Tuesday Night).She recently told me that she didn't want to dateme yet, because she would hurt me. She also saidthat if it is meant to happen it will, and that weshouldn't force it. My question is how do I gether to realize that it is meant, and that weshould push it, and how do I prove to her shewon't hurt me?

Sincerely, -J.K.>>>

MY COMMENTS: Well, I'd say that the FIRST thing you shoulddo is grab a piece of paper and a pen, and walkinto the bathroom right now. Turn on the light. On the piece of paper I want you to write theword "YSSUW" on it. I know, it doesn't makesense... but do it anyway. Now, hold the piece of paper in front of you,so it's facing the mirror... almost as if it's aCAPTION for YOUR FACE. Look at yourself in the mirror. Let that settle in for a minute. Now that you have a clear picture of what aWUSSY looks like, move on to a more advancedmaneuver. Carefully take your right hand, and raise it upnext to your face. Hold it about 12 inches away. Now firmly BITCH SLAP yourself with it. Repeat until the Wuss has been slapped out ofyou... Dude, duuuuuude. You are SOOO missing the point here. She does not want a guy who will prove to herthat she won't hurt him. She doesn't want to bewith you because you're acting like a WUSSBAG. Women aren't attracted to girly-men. Girly-men freak women out. Women RUN from girly-men. The answer is for you to start acting like aMAN... and stop acting like a GIRL. You need to get yourself a copy of my AdvancedDating Techniques Program immediately. This is an emergency. Do it. www.dontbeawuss.com

Here's an example of alpha male behavior

2008-12-25T16:17:00.000-08:00

This is a great example of voice tone, body language and attitude.

If This Guy can Do It ANYONE Can Do It

2008-12-25T06:48:00.001-08:00

This is a 10 minute video packed with unbelievable information that helped to change my perception of what is possible in this life. If this guy can get girls I certainly have no excuse.

Brent Smith Affirmations - These are fantastic

2008-12-24T21:32:00.000-08:00

These affirmations are from Brent Smith, one of my favorite dating coaches.

Every thought you think and every word you speak is creating your future, so here's how to start triggering it from the inside.

Practice the following every day:

* Grateful list (first thing in the morning is best)

I'm grateful for:

People always buying me drinks

Girls always approaching me

Girls always checking me out

Girls always grabbing my ass

Girls always opening up to me

People always finding me funny

Always being able to approach and have great conversations with the hottest girls in the club

Being this way all the time

ETC. (I would also add everything else that your grateful for such as good health, good friends,
good job, whatever)

The more you're grateful about, the more you'll RECEIVE to be grateful about!

* Affirmations (doing these in the mirror is quite powerful)

I always go out and have a great time

I always go out to give

I always give people great interactions

I always inspire everyone to realize how simple it is to meet people and how friendly they really are

I'm always confident as hell

People always buy me drinks

Girls always approach me

Girls always check me out

Girls always grab my ass

Girls always open up to

Girls always proposition me

People always find me funny

I always approach and have great conversations with the hottest girls in the club

* Visualize (throughout the day)

Now, use the memory/images of your successful night and visualize that this is how your life is, ALL THE TIME.

* Your new story

I always decide that, "I'm going to go out and have a great time. I'm just going to give.... I'm going to give people great interactions; I'm going to inspire everyone to realize how easy it is to meet people and how friendly they really are, etc." When I go out I'm confident as hell. So as usual, people (both guys and girls) buy me drinks, girls approach me, check me out, grab my ass, open up to me, and constantly proposition me. I make people laugh, and of course I also approach and have a great conversations with the hottest girls in the whole club!

If doubt creeps in to your mind, just continue the process of working on yourself, changing your
story, realizing that your belief about the outside "trigger" is just that...a belief, realize the benefit, how ridiculous the benefit is, and then let it go.

Try it and let me know what happens!

Failed Pick Up Lines?? LOL

2008-12-24T06:27:00.000-08:00

This is some of the funniest stuff I've seen that has to do with the dating community. These guys have major balls... They actually get a couple of yeses. I wish some of the real teachers (gurus) would put more videos of them getting rejected as well as being successful. I think it would be very beneficial.

One of the best pick up artists on the planet

2008-12-24T04:27:00.000-08:00

I first heard Brent Smith on a David Deangelo CD a few years ago. Out of all the "gurus" he interviewed that weekend for his Double Your Dating series, Brent was the best, hands down. His approach is the least needy of all of them, he gets the girls to come to him purely through energy, body language and a smile. Have a listen to this totally free interview. This is probably the most information I've ever heard him give for free. I think he may have gotten lost in it and revealed more than he should have. You would normally pay him thousands for this info.